Are you wanting more depth in your relationship?
A step-by-step approach to Enrching Your Relationships
(even when your partner is not willing to change).
Amazing women who feel stuck in a relationship that they don’t want to leave but they are not sure how to make it into something better. They never think to ask for an amazing relationship, they just want it to be better. They are exhausted by the constant arguments, the tension is excruciating, and the loneliness is really difficult to deal with. The load of it all wears them down and it’s like they give up, maybe even become a bit numb. They don’t feel supported or understood and certainly not enriched in their relationship. They aren’t feeling truly fulfilled and their partner’s not feeling fulfilled either which is also difficult to come to terms with.
Do you have a relationship where you . . .
- Feel trapped under others’ expectations and demands?
- Get frustrated with the lack of communication?
- Unappreciated, undervalued, and not truly seen?.
- Feel a lack of connection, presence, and true engagement?
- Are you wanting more depth, more spark, more love?
- Know it’s not bad but it is still well below the potential?
Can you relate?
One Woman'sStory
The arguments were really difficult for her because she didn’t like who she became when she was triggered. She would scream, swear, say things that were cutting and she started to feel really bad about herself. The nights were the worst because the state of the relationship was completely in her face, she couldn’t escape the tense silence, the lonely conversation-less dinners, the lack of affection. This was an amazing woman, stuck in a relationship dynamic that was nowhere near the life she had dreamt of as a little girl (and not what her partner truly deserved either).
One night she was eyes wide open, relationship disaster in her face, looking at her life (which from the outside seemed fine), a tidal wave of sadness welling up but too numb to even cry and she made the most important promise to herself that she had ever made. . . she said: “I can’t do this anymore, something needs to change, I need to do something because I want a different life to this”.
This woman joined my program 12 months ago and is now living a completely different life. She knows her worth, she knows her value and although the relationship is not perfect . . . she feels empowered, free to express, and inspired by life. Her husband isn’t perfect but after 30 years of marriage, he keeps surprising her in ways she never ever thought possible.
Her story is not so different to many, many other women and men. I have made it my life purpose to support people in relationships, and to bring my all to reminding people that an enriching relationship is more than possible for them.
There are no rules. You don’t have to stay and you don’t have to go. What is important is that you know your worth, feel your value, and sense what is true for you. . . Once you are supported to know this . . . backing yourself becomes easy.
- Is it selfish to want more?
- I know we are not really connecting but I don’t know how to talk about this with my partner. How do I communicate that things are not great?
- I don’t feel like we look at each other like we are “the one”. People tell me it’s normal. How can we find our spark again?
- I feel bad for wanting more because what I have isn’t that bad . . . when I look at other people’s relationships. Do I need to just appreciate what I have got? Or is there something more I can do?
- I don’t know how to change things, to bring the spark, and to connect in a deeper, more meaningful way? I am not even sure if it is possible for our relationship?
- I don’t have the energy to argue and . . . I don’t want to rock the boat in case I make it worse. How do I bring change without creating a big issue?
I came to the program, believing my relationship with my partner was over and needing support to move away from it. Within a week I understood it was about the relationship with myself and how I can remain steady and powerful in my interactions with those around me and all the crazy stuff that occurs. My relationship with my partner and daughter has blossomed, as I was supported by the program to move away from the dynamics, stop engaging out of reaction and embrace the ever-unfolding awareness of my hurts - which rolls out still. The program has laid a foundation for me to understand that I have everything within me. I cannot share my depth of appreciation enough to Rebecca and all the incredible ladies I got to share with along this journey. I have loved them deeply and will have them in my world forever; and I now love myself deeply knowing I can carry myself through life with a depth and confidence I had only once dreamed of.
Georgina
When I came to work with Rebecca in her program, I had been married for 29 years and although I loved my husband it continously felt as if something was missing in our relationship. We talked about this several times but it always stayed with words and then we continued in the same way again. It felt like we were going in circles on the same issues over and over again, not really connecting with each other and I was wondering if we ever had. And yet I could feel I did not want to throw away our marriage. There was something else for the both of us but what and where to find? That is when I called for a ‘next step’ with Rebecca and just by saying yes to this (which was a huge step for me) things already started to shift even before I had decided to start the program. That first call with Rebecca really broke down what was happening for me within our relationship and I had a whole new perspective on what was playing out between us. It simply confirmed that there is another way (to be in relationship). What has been unfolding through this program is the depth and steadiness I now feel within myself. There is Joy every time I choose to connect within myself and express from there on. Step by step I could let go of many hurts, quite some pictures and expectations just by coming back to what I truly feel within. The tensions in my body dropped and I started to read situations on a different level be it in the relationship with my partner, with friends, family or anyone I meet. Every relationship has changed by bringing more depth and steadiness into the relationship with myself and there is no perfection in it. I love this program, the detail, richness and lightfullness in every single module Rebecca offers and it is so supportive to connect with other women through the FB group, not to forget the weekly sharings and readings that are beyond words. I can feel an enormous appreciation for all the support this program has offered and still does and for having said yes to the ‘next step call’ with Rebecca as I can now feel there is a constant 'next step call’ deep within me to be brought to everyone I meet.
Ann
I used to feel like a victim to what was happening around me feeling like I was in a washing machine of given up in my relationships with most people, absorbing people’s problems and not wanting to take responsibility for at least holding myself in situations. After the course I feel empowered and clear in what is my stuff and what is happening for another. There is a lot more understanding and observation when things come up. I feel like I have tools from the enriching relationships program to get myself out of the washing machine whenever I get caught and has supported me to deepen my relationship with myself. Even though I have finished the program it feels like I’ve only just begun. The biggest Ah moment I got from the course was when I started taking responsibility for myself the relationships I had with others started to change for the better.
Jemma
The Enriching Relationships program has been a wonderful experience, full of personal growth and healing. Rebecca has helped me develop a better understanding of myself and others, and has aided my ability to read and navigate the various dynamics encountered throughout life. I look forward to further growth and understanding as I continue to apply the course to my everyday life. Thank you Rebecca!
Jacqui
Initially I was hesitant to sign up for the Enriching Relationships course, despite feeling a strong pull towards it. The usual tired old fear narratives were running through my head: “It’s a lot of money to spend on myself”, “What if it doesn’t work and nothing changes”, etc. etc. but boy am I glad I overrode this and listened to my soul. I’m only 4 weeks in and I’m blown away by the changes I’ve experienced. I’ve always considered myself very self-aware, but this has taken me to a whole other level. I can feel shifts happening already – I’ve noticed I’m less emotionally reactive (meaning more awareness can drop in) or when I do react it’s been much easier to pull myself out of it; I’m being more gentle with myself despite working through some pretty uncomfortable home truths; I’m taking more responsibility for my life (working on kicking that victim mentality to the curb); and most significantly, after feeling shut down and contracted for so long, I feel I’m really starting to open up to people and to develop more intimate relationships with those around me. Interestingly, I've also noticed that I feel lighter and my natural joyfulness is back, which is always a sign for me that I'm feeling more connected to myself.
Rebecca’s skill of reading of people, their situation, and what they’re struggling with is so accurate it’s other worldly, meaning the wisdom she delivers to support you is full of truth and clarity. She holds space for everyone in the group with absolute love and integrity and without an ounce of judgement so I always feel comfortable expressing myself fully. At the same time, Rebecca won’t hold back on presenting the truth, even if it’s something you don’t want to hear, in order to help you grow and evolve. I particularly love the weekly group calls – we all learn so much from what each of us shares and it’s an incredibly healing space for everyone.
I only wish I’d come across it sooner and that every woman could do this course – the world would be a very different place!
Miranda
I am half way through The Enriching Relationships Program and no longer feel like I’m in a relationship where I am “controlled”, I express more freely and I have the support that I need. I’m no longer hurt by his behaviour or BS, and I love that I can more easily cut the energy (BS) coming at me. I’m no longer scared of my partner and I’m no longer scared of relationships. I now feel I have some really useful tools to deal with what they bring. I am more aware of who I am and what I feel. I don’t let any subtle comments or undercurrents go undealt with now. If I feel uncomfortable about something, I call it straight out. It’s amazing the transformation in this area. There are still areas that need work but I don’t feel the daily undermining that I used to.
Sarah
When I started The Enriching Relationships Program I was looking to improve my relationship with my partner. We’d been through a particularly stressful and difficult period which had impacted the quality of our relationship. The programme has been transformational on so many levels. Personally it has given me time to reflect, look at patterns in our relationship – some healthy, some not so and help create a more loving, enriching relationship where there is true depth. The course content is powerful and there have been many ‘aha’ moments and awareness’s. The weekly meetings have been so supportive and have given me space to discuss the course content and anything that comes up from week to week. I can’t recommend this programme highly enough. It has supported me to grow so much personally and I now have a lot more understand of myself and my partner.
Therese
I went into the program, in hindsight, with a very narrow view of what it actually meant to ‘enrich relationships’. I thought that it might have a positive effect on my relationship with my partner, and possibly the relationship with my children, and help our household function a little smoother, but I was completely unprepared for the depth of what was about to unfold. Even though I ‘knew’ that relationships were all around us - with our friends, our colleagues and ourselves, I hadn’t fully considered the extent that every interaction was an offering to learn more about ourselves and express more of the depth of who we are, and conversely, experience the innate qualities and depth of others. Working in a group of women – many who I would not normally connect with in every day life - meant that each week, we got to hear a range of different perspectives, experiences, challenges and the qualities that each were able to offer these situations with greater love, understanding and strength. It was often the case that situations that seemed personal, were being experienced by everyone in a different way. By sharing and working through these together, it developed a level of intimacy, understanding and appreciation that I hadn’t expected. Prior to the program, I wouldn’t have considered myself as someone who loved group work, or had a deep connection to a feeling of ‘sisterhood’ - women truly appreciating and supporting one another (that was a bit too fluffy for me!) But the truth of this was far from fluff, and in fact, a very solid and practical foundation that allowed a greater depth within myself to come to the surface. The ripples of this were felt in all sorts of relationships within my life – from immediate family, to the more casual interactions - and it absolutely did, enrich my relationships. There was a joke between my partner and I, that it was so profound that he was going to write a testimonial! The connections that I made within the group were the absolute unexpected gold and there are several women who I absolutely adore and am still in touch with regularly. Thank you for helping me to redefine what is actually means to ‘enrich relationships’
Helen
The Enriching Relationships Program and The Building Love and Affection Program have both been very enriching in my personal growth and this has transferred into all my other relationships. There has been a lot of self-discoveries and an opportunity to look at relationships & uncover what’s actually happening underneath any arguments, reactions, impositions etc.
Personally- It has been very challenging & exposing- but in a beneficial way. The opportunity to freely write & express how I feel & what I observe in life has been a very powerful tool to unlock what has held me back from bringing all that I am from my essence in the roles of woman, mother, midwife, wife, friend etc. It has helped me connect more to the depth of who I am & appreciate those qualities - delicacy, sacredness, sweetness, sexiness, deeply caring.
My relationship with my husband has deepened and is more open. I have been able to let him be- not need him to do the course/workbook with me. It has felt true for me to do it on my own- to empower myself & come to deeper awareness about what gets in the way of us living harmoniously. And, I have discovered a lot to appreciate in the 30+ yr marriage that I took for granted.
I love how the workbooks have been written- very supportive; knowledge shared has always been given through Rebecca's lived experience. You can feel the depth of truth, honesty & transparency that comes through her in her writing. Love the videos- visual & group audio in each module to support the writing/ questions.
They make it interesting & fun! - and keep you engaged.
The weekly calls have been very supportive, honouring of each of 4-5 women on the call.
I have never witnessed before a counselling session with 5 other ladies where you are all held in such love. It felt like what it would be living in a true family, where you are all equally respected, & adored for what you bring. Rebecca was like the adoring & caring mother that I didn't have growing up. I was able to let go of my childhood hurts & see them for what they were.
Thanking you so much Rebecca! Deeply appreciate the absoluteness, stillness, sassy/sexiness, sacredness, truth, beholding love, richness & power of what you bring to the groups every week.
Loretta
It’s time to invest in
what’s important.
Relationships are one of the most important things in our lives and we spend very little time nurturing them.
We all want to be a good partner so where do we go so wrong?
Most of us will spend more money on our car than we do supporting the growth of our relationships. A car won’t offer you connection, growth or intimacy. Working with your relationship is one of the most rewarding and advancing things you can offer yourself in your life.
This program was designed from over 2 decades of personal work within my own relationship as well as nearly 2 decades of professional work within clinical practice.
This program is a specialised step-by-step approach to enriching your relationships where you get me to hold your hand throughout the whole process. All of my years of experience, my care, my support all available to step you through the process of enriching your relationship.
This program is not a superficial approach to relationships. It’s a deep dive into the inner workings of human relations. It’s packed full of resources to help you (and your partner!) grow together and have the kind of alive, supportive and intimate relationship you’ve always wanted.
Initially I was hesitant to sign up for the Enriching Relationships course, despite feeling a strong pull towards it. The usual tired old fear narratives were running through my head: “It’s a lot of money to spend on myself”, “What if it doesn’t work and nothing changes”, etc. etc. but boy am I glad I overrode this and listened to my soul. I’m only 4 weeks in and I’m blown away by the changes I’ve experienced.
I’ve always considered myself very self-aware, but this has taken me to a whole other level. I can feel shifts happening already – I’ve noticed I’m less emotionally reactive (meaning more awareness can drop in) or when I do react it’s been much easier to pull myself out of it; I’m being more gentle with myself despite working through some pretty uncomfortable home truths; I’m taking more responsibility for my life (working on kicking that victim mentality to the curb); and most significantly, after feeling shut down and contracted for so long, I feel I’m really starting to open up to people and to develop more intimate relationships with those around me. Interestingly, I've also noticed that I feel lighter and my natural joyfulness is back, which is always a sign for me that I'm feeling more connected to myself.
Rebecca’s skill of reading of people, their situation, and what they’re struggling with is so accurate it’s other worldly, meaning the wisdom she delivers to support you is full of truth and clarity. She holds space for everyone in the group with absolute love and integrity and without an ounce of judgement so I always feel comfortable expressing myself fully. At the same time, Rebecca won’t hold back on presenting the truth, even if it’s something you don’t want to hear, in order to help you grow and evolve. I particularly love the weekly group calls – we all learn so much from what each of us shares and it’s an incredibly healing space for everyone. I only wish I’d come across it sooner and that every woman could do this course – the world would be a very different place!
MIRANDA
When I started The Enriching Relationships Program I was looking to improve my relationship with my partner. We’d been through a particularly stressful and difficult period which had impacted the quality of our relationship. The programme has been transformational on so many levels. Personally it has given me time to reflect, look at patterns in our relationship – some healthy, some not so and help create a more loving, enriching relationship where there is true depth. The course content is powerful and there have been many ‘aha’ moments and awareness’s. The weekly meetings have been so supportive and have given me space to discuss the course content and anything that comes up from week to week. I can’t recommend this programme highly enough. It has supported me to grow so much personally and I now have a lot more understand of myself and my partner.
Therese
- Enjoy being totally at ease with yourself in your relationship
- Know who you are to a depth that leaves you steady and strong
- Be comfortable with addressing conflict in a true way
- Be understanding but not compromise who you are
- Move beyond tug-of-war style arguments
- Feel free to communicate what you are feeling
- Master the art of true relationship collaboration
The end result?
This program will not only offer you a complete rejuvenation of your love life, it will also offer you the skills to be perceptive, empowered and understanding in all relationships. The way you are with your partner, kids, work colleagues, family and friends will get an upgrade, benefiting all areas of your life.
After a 22 year relationship, from age twenty, I became a serial relationshipper for the next 10 years, finding myself in relationships that weren’t right for me. When I came to the Enriching Realtionships Program I was dating my best friend. I couldn’t ask for a more loving and understanding partner, he was caring, open and attentive but I was still feeling that it wasn’t right, I would freeze in the bedroom and I new there were things to heal within myself. Part way through the program, I realised that there was so much more depth and wisdom inside of me that I had been shutting down. For the first time in a long time (maybe not even this life) I felt the courage to be by myself and not be in a relationship but instead have a true relationship with myself. I ended my romantic relationship with my best friend, claimed my sexuality and have been enjoying a freedom and strength to be myself in the world. I am so appreciative that I have made the decision to really back myself in the way I do now and I know that I will have a truly enriching relationship with a partner in the future but right now I am enjoying deepening with the exquisite and beautiful relationship I am building with myself. Magic has happened all around me and all of my relationships have benefited including my relationship with my estranged daughter who has now come back into my life in a beautiful way
Mary-Lou
EACH MODULE IS A POWERFUL program within itself
In this module, you are encouraged to stop carrying your baggage, place it on the floor in front of you, open it up and take an honest look. From here you know what you are dealing with, you can start to unpack and lighten the load. Without knowing what you are loaded with you will never be able to lighten the load. Once we have unpacked what we have been carrying, let go of what is no longer needed we are free to understand more clearly what value we bring to relationships. This can be even more difficult to appreciate and in this module, you are supported to claim what you bring without shrinking away or dismissing what it means to be loved by you. Module 1 is all about jumping in the deep end!
I have had a massive shift since starting The Enriching Relationships Program and I am now seeing my husband in a completely different light and because of this, the relationship has deepened enormously. I have a love for him that I didn’t even realise I was missing and he now responds to me in a completely different way. We are so much more harmonious together and I can express so much more of what I am feeling without it turning into an argument or tense discussion. I am starting to really see the big picture and the purpose of why my husband and I are together, what strengths and weaknesses we both perfectly bring to each other (even the annoying things) and the growth and learning on offer for us both. I can also express myself more clearly and I am more aware of what I am feeling and less reactive in situations. I would totally recommend this program to anyone who wants to learn and grow with their relationship and is ready for a whole other level of empowerment in who they are
Carmel
Wife, mother, friend, presenter, and program creator. I bring over 18 years experience of working with people in clinical practice to the implementation of the Enriching Relationship Program. I don’t just teach or preach this program, I live it. Everything offered in this program has been first tried and tested within my own relationship of over 19 years with my husband. I have also worked with hundreds of clients, supporting them in detail to take their relationship to the next level.
Developing a relationship that offers honesty, truth, and depth on an ongoing basis is not a wishlist item but something that every person should naturally have available to them.
You should feel free . . .
- free to follow what is true for you
- free to express
- free to be valued for who you are . . . not just what you do.
- free to grow, inspire and expand
- free to bring growth to others
- free to explore what is next without feeling like you are being held back
Relationships shouldn’t be hard work - they should be enriching, respectful and intimate. Join me as I step you through the process that has supported many many women to rejuvenate their relationships.
That’s why I created the
This program was designed from over 2 decades of personal work within my own relationship as well as nearly 2 decades of professional work within clinical practice.
This program is not a superficial approach to relationships. It’s a deep dive into the inner workings of human relations. It’s packed full of resources to help you (and your partner!) grow together and have the kind of alive, supportive and intimate relationship that you deep down know is possible.
Are You Single?
This program was designed to enhance your current relationship or prepare you for entry into a new one. Single women on the program have experienced the power of building strong foundations, this not only supports their next relationship, it also ensures they are resolving any old patterns they don’t want to repeat . . . preparing them to accept a truer more supportive relationship coming along.
Consider what is important to you
And give that your all
- This is a 6 month quality program with every angle of support covered.
- You can’t fail, we have supported nearly 100 women over the last year to completely shift their relationships from feeling stuck to feeling alive and enriched.
- This program is a specialised step-by-step approach to enriching your relationships where you get me to hold your hand throughout the whole process.
- You get my in-depth reading of what really is going on in your relationship, and the support to bring the change that is needed.
- You won’t have to worry about waiting for your partner to be ready. This program works with you regardless of where your partner is at.
- Men, don’t worry you can send us an expression of interest and we will let you know when the next men’s program starts
- You get me and all of my experience stepping you through every moment, every problem, dynamic, frustration, or issue. I am literally cheering for you the whole way (in a non-weird way 😊).
LIFETIME ACCESS >> to the Enriching Relationships Program course material including 12 modules of videos, audios and workbooks.
PERSONALISED SUPPORT » with Rebecca and her team. We get to know each person individually and walk you through each step.
12 LIFE-CHANGING MODULES » Including Video, Audio and Workbooks to support you to deepen your understanding of yourself and your relationships so you know exactly how to start bringing more enrichment. You have access to this content for life and many people find that they redo the program modules as they grow and learn and different layers peel away.
12 WEEKLY 1.5hr POWERFUL GROUP SESSIONS » These group sessions are incredibly powerful. Not only do you get amazing one-on-one support including in-depth readings and healing on your relationship, you also get to learn from everyone else's session too. What unfolds within these sessions is very humbling and inspiring at the same time.
ACCESS TO THE MASTERCLASS VIDEO LIBRARY » This library includes over 60 hours of content for you to choose exactly what area of relationships and healing you would like to delve into. Some examples include: Getting On The Same Page, Deepening Your Relationship, Building Your Awareness, Communication and Dynamics, Stress and Burnout - taking others energy on, Mothering Without Guilt, Knowing Your Strengths As A Mother, Raising Loving Girls, Raising Loving Boys, Unwrapping Your Relationships With Food, Body Image and Self-Love . . . and much much more.
I am half way through The Enriching Relationships Program and no longer feel like I’m in a relationship where I am “controlled”, I express more freely and I have the support that I need. I’m no longer hurt by his behaviour or BS, and I love that I can more easily cut the energy (BS) coming at me. I’m no longer scared of my partner and I’m no longer scared of relationships. I now feel I have some really useful tools to deal with what they bring. I am more aware of who I am and what I feel. I don’t let any subtle comments or undercurrents go undealt with now. If I feel uncomfortable about something, I call it straight out. It’s amazing the transformation in this area. There are still areas that need work but I don’t feel the daily undermining that I used to.
Sarah
The enriching relationships program is offering me a new way to understand and deal with the intricacies of relationships by fully supporting me in my journey of awareness and truth. I love that this program gives me support and insight from a group of women who are becoming enriched in their relationships while being held in care by each other. Thank you, Rebecca. You are simply awesome
Sharon
Great relationships are truly magnificent. When you live in a supportive and deeply nourishing relationship, your whole world changes. You are no longer part of the get-through-life equation, instead you are enormously enriched by each moment.
Too many people live in less than supportive relationships. It is quite normal for there to be dismissiveness, undermining, silent treatment and lack of communication. So many people treat their partners in ways that they would not dare treat other people. Many people are warm, open and engaging with others and then reduce that quality for their partners. Shouldn’t it be the other way around? Shouldn’t we be exploring the depth and breadth of what warmth and care means within our relationships and then build the confidence to care for others based on what we have learnt?
The lower level of love and care in our relationships is completely unnecessary. There doesn’t need to be the backlog of resentment, hurt or bitterness. Most relationships are capable of at least respect, if not, deeper levels of love and support.
Settling for a relationship that doesn’t support you is not the answer and it certainly isn’t something you should have to live with. It is a complete lie that you have to suck it up to keep others happy as this doesn’t truly support anyone (kids included).
That doesn’t mean you have to end it, what I am sharing here is that I am yet to meet a person that couldn’t get out of the relationship mess they were in and I have literally worked with thousands and thousands of people.
